This blog relates the real life adventures of a married couple in their 30's. We are happily married for more than 10 years and have chosen to open our marriage up to new sexual realities, including cuckolding, sissification and a wife led marriage. All while loving each other more each day. If this is not your thing it's OK but this may not be the place for you. If you enjoy it please feel free to leave a comment. If you have questions please leave those as well. It is written by both Goddess and sissy - sharing all our thoughts and feelings regarding the journey. All the pictures on here are taken by me or found on the web. If I found it on the web I assumed it was part of the public domain. If you see a picture that is yours and want it removed please let me know and I will remove it.

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Tuesday, July 26, 2011

My Wife the Slut

To call my wife a slut is not an insult as far as either of us are concerned. In fact she loves the term. She embraces it as her new hidden identity. She doesnt cheat on me and I am there when she has her conquests but no mistake she is a slut. I suppose there are degrees of slutness. She would be kind of controlled slut. She loves to flirt and the freedom of knowing she can do almost whatever she wants as long as we discuss beforehand makes her love flirting even more. But she controlls herself, knowing that the balance of being a wife, mother and slut is delicate. We talk often of her desires. We had a business meeting the other day and she told me that night in bed she would love to fuck the man we were meeting with, unfortunately that isnt prudent right now but it makes fro great sex talk.

She loves role play sex. her favorite is daddy daughter. She loves playing the innocent girl being defiled. She loves anal anyway but during this roleplay it becomes a must have. She loves being watched and oogled. She will bend and show cleavage or more to the right guy if she knows he is looking. She loves to dress for attention - tight with lots of cleavage. She loves to flirt in front of me or be flirted with. She is also very adventurous during sex. She loves sucking cock, anal, having cum shot all over her, watersports, two or more men at a time. She hasnt tried bi sex yet but we have discussed many times in fantasy and she loves lesbian porn. I love being around her and the sex we have is very hot.

She impresses me with the kindness and tenderness she shows me, knowing her desires and the ability for her to fulfill them I am even more proud to be married to her. It is rarely dull.

Monday, July 25, 2011

First Post - My Slut Wife

My wife is a slut. I mean she is a great wife and mother but really she is a slut and very few people know it. I love watching her with other men. I love seeing her flirt and seduce but mostly I love watching her fuck. She loves men with big cocks - actually we both do but more on that later. She loves a man who will take charge of her and use her body for his pleasure - she has a rockin sexy body! She hasnt had all that many men at this point, only 4 other men since we have been married. She is trying to plan a second time with her favorite so far. Their first meeting was cut short and they both are anxious for a second meeting. I am anxious to watch, he has a really nice cock, 8 inches and thick, plus he knows how to treat her. She loves his fingering, she loved how he took charge but most of all how he pounded her with that cock. I will be a spectator for this one. Some times I participate but this time I decided I would rather watch, I expect it to be very hot. Rather than chance getting in the way I will be the voyeur, I love being a voyeur! Besides he isnt bi so my participation isnt really required or desired by him, not that he would mind seeing as how I did participate in the first meeting.

So the logical first question is - Why do I let or even encourage my wife to fuck other men? Fair question. The short answer is it turns me on, like REALLY turns me on. Her being a slut makes her the sexiest woman in the world to me. I love seeing it and talking about her deisres. The second question ofcourse is How do i not get jealous? The answer is I do get jealous. Not insanely jealous but just a twinge of jealousy. How could I not, she is my world - well her and the kids. But I have learned to temper and even enjoy that little jealousy. Also it is not just jealousy of other men giving her something I cant (alas I am not well hung nor do I last long nor am I good at taking charge like she loves) but I get envious of the pleasure she is getting. What I have learned is that if I focus on what I dont have or what someone else is getting then I will not be able to enjoy what I get. In other words I focus on the pleasure I get from her slutty activities not the negativity of jealousy or envy.  So in this way we are both happy. She enjoys being a slut - which is the real her finally coming out! I get to enjoy hearing her thoughts, desires and watch her as she has each new man and fulfills each new fantasy. And lucky you I am here to write about it all. Why I chose to do that later, maybe.