This blog relates the real life adventures of a married couple in their 30's. We are happily married for more than 10 years and have chosen to open our marriage up to new sexual realities, including cuckolding, sissification and a wife led marriage. All while loving each other more each day. If this is not your thing it's OK but this may not be the place for you. If you enjoy it please feel free to leave a comment. If you have questions please leave those as well. It is written by both Goddess and sissy - sharing all our thoughts and feelings regarding the journey. All the pictures on here are taken by me or found on the web. If I found it on the web I assumed it was part of the public domain. If you see a picture that is yours and want it removed please let me know and I will remove it.

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Friday, March 16, 2012


 Well i have to say I didnt see this one coming. Odd for me as I could have predicted just about everything in our sex life til now. She decided the cuckold thing wasnt working fro her. She didnt like me being submissive all the time. Honestly I was feeling neglected by the end due to her not wanting to domme me. I am happy to report I never did have any serious jealousy issues, our biggest worry i think. And she didnt lose respect for me at all.

So now what? Well we are giving her what she wants, I am doming her. We have had lots of fun with it, I love teasing her and she loves it. i may involve some of her old lovers in it, if she is a good girl. I may also get some other women involved, hmm... this could work. Honestly my biggest fear about doming her was my lack of penis size and ability tom last. What I am finding out is the mind fuck, and the liberal use of fingers and toys does just fine. In fact she is loving this and horny as ever. She took a butt plug for the first time and wants to again..soon! I made her lick my ass, which she doesn't like but did a fine job of. I ahve used the crop pretty hard on her ass and she liked it. She also likes me to slap her, though I dont so it hard. Being called a slut just makes her so wet. And I tell her about pimping her out to men in bars or making her give blow jobs in an adult theatre - wow she goes crazy. I fucked her from behind the other night then stopped pulled out and made her lick off her own juices. Tonight I was going to fuck her and make her clean me after I came in her. Thats definitely still on tap for another time. Alas she fell asleep. I could have used her in her sleep, she loves that but decided blogging and some porn sounded nice..back to my old self already I think.

 I miss the ability to be a sissy with all it entailed. But I am enjoying this and my chance to be a sissy will be back some day I think. There is a bbw I met that i think is sexy and like to flirt with, for some reason wifey is feeling jealous - usually she would not, she even encouraged it several times. I do like bbws! And I will be posting the video soon, it runs a little over 10 minutes. Wish I knew how to embed a video from a thumb drive, if anyone can tell me please do. I am a very low tech person..sigh....

Sunday, March 4, 2012

An old friend

We had to travel out of town last week. It happened to be the same place my wife's favorite lover was staying. They got in touch and we all met up. There will be a video on our xhamster site soon, I will link it here when it is up but technical difficulties prevail at the moment. They had a wonderful time. I got involved more so this time than in the last. I really enjoy him as well, he is a good fit for both of us. He is the only one she likes in a a personal way. We had drinks ahead of time and they flirted a little, she loved having me watch them flirt. There is a possibility they will get together again soon, this time alone as I will be unavailable - she will love that if it happens. It will be our first experience of her playing alone so it will be an interesting event if it does come off. I asked her to set up the video camera so I can see it all when I get back. I am scared yet excited about it. We will  see what happens. We did get one pic, below.

Some other new things have come up. I began speaking with a couple on swing village a BBW wife and bi hubby who want to use me to fulfill a fantasy. I like the idea a lot but Goddess isn't sure yet if she is OK with it. I will be the obedient cucky hubby and be happy with what ever she decides. There is a BBW I have met through work and have enjoyed speaking with, I share all with Goddess of course and she is allowing me to flirt with her - she is OK with us having lunch as well but has not consented to anything more if it comes to that. We bought a chastity device for me, modeled by me in the pic. I have only had it on that once but undoubtedly will be wearing it again.

The other night she asked me to dom her, a real switch for us as of late. It went very well, she loved it. Of course with my little cock penetration was not a major part - at least not with my little cock. I used various toys on her including a large butt plug and the riding crop. We thoroughly enjoyed ourselves and ended the evening with a second orgasm worshiping her.