My sissy is feeling the need to express herself as she mentioned in her earlier post. She would like to express to a "friend." There is a particular friend, a BBW she's fantasized about serving even before we began down the road of a sissy/goddess relationship. My question is, do my fellow goddess'/dom's allow their sissy's/wifey's to have "girlfriends" that have previously been romantic interests they wanted to play with as dom's themselves?
I am having a hard time allowing this relationship and I think I have figured out why just tonight. Among other reasons (like quite frankly a BBW is a goddess herself) because this BBW was a romantic interest before our change in dynamic and now I feel as though my sissy is subverting my dominance by wanting this BBW to remain in her life. I want to give my sissy an outlet of someone to talk to because I enjoy very much being a loving/giving goddess but I just really don't want to give her this particular relationship. I would be very pleased if she found a man she could talk to or a woman friend of my choosing that she could relate with female to femme/male but not this particular one. I feel a bit silly.
Don't feel silly. What you say makes a lot of sense. If you don't want her to have this particular relationship, you should not allow it.
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Thank you for the feedback Florida Dom! I appreciate it!
DeleteI do agree with you. She doesn't need to be talking with a person who she has fantazied about before. It could lead to other problems.... You're not silly! You hit the nail on the head...
ReplyDeleteThank you for the response, the feedback I've gotten has served to affirm my sentiments as well.
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